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Campus Resources

The S.H.A.R.E. Center
203 432-6653

• The SHARE Center is a confidential resource for students, faculty and staff who wish to explore options if or when they believe they are the target of the crime of stalking. If you are concerned about your safety, SHARE urges you to contact immediately, the Yale or New Haven Police.
• Counselors are available 24/7 to offer support and provide information on Yale Police involvement in order to determine a course of action and/or how to file a police report.
• Counselors can call the Yale Police on behalf of the caller or arrange meetings with specific officers.
• Counselors can also assist with resources for medical attention and ongoing counseling.

Yale Police
203 432-4400

Yale Chaplain's Office
203 432-1129

Yale LGBTQ Office
203 432-0847

Acute Care
203 432-0123

Mental Health & Counseling
203 432-0290

New Haven Resources

New Haven Police
203 946-6316

Outside Resources

Stalking Resource Center
(National Center for Victims of Crime)
1-800 FYI-CALL M-F 8:30 am - 8:30 pm EST or
E-mail gethelp@ncvc.org

National Center for Victims of Crime
NCVC is one of the largest non-profit organizations advocating for all victims of crime. The web site features links to victim related web sites and discussion forums. Be sure to check out the statistics section with statistical compilations related to violence in general, child abuse, crime against the elderly, domestic violence, hate crimes, homicide, sexual assaults, and violence in the workplace.

GLBT National Help Center

Planned Parenthood

NOW and Violence Against Women

The Stalking Resource Center
The Stalking Resource Center is a project of the National Center for Victims of Crime, funded through the Violence Against Women Office (VAWO), U.S. Department of Justice. The Stalking Resource Center has established a clearinghouse of information and resources to inform and support local, multidisciplinary stalking response programs nationwide; developed a national peer-to-peer exchange program to provide targeted, on-site problem-solving assistance to VAWO arrest grantee jurisdictions; and organized a nationwide network of local practitioners who represent VAWO grantee jurisdictions to support their multidisciplinary approaches to stalking.

ESIA: End Stalking in America
The purpose of this site is to help educate the general public, to be of assistance to all potential victims of stalking, and to assist those victims who are currently being harassed and stalked. We hope to give you the information, inspiration, and motivation to help us end stalking in America, and to help and understand those victims who are currently being stalked. Currently, E.S.I.A. is assisting victims (men and women) who are current victims of harassment and stalking. In addition, we are educating corporations and private companies on the dangers of stalking.

Crime of Stalking: How Big is the Problem?
Patricia Tjaden. November 1997.

Crime Victims Entry from Encyclopedia of Crime and Punishment, Vol. 2, 2002
Contents include : Victim Rights, Women Victims, The Right To Sue And Bear Witness, Victim Compensation Laws, Victims' Bill Of Rights, Mediation, Protecting Victims, Victim Advocates, Increased Professionalism, The Study Of Victims, and Victim Statistics.

Cyberstalking
Emma Ogilvie, Australian Institute of Criminology Trends and Issues in Crime and Criminal Justice no. 166. Sept. 2000. 6pp.

Cyberstalking: A New Challenge for Law Enforcement and Industry
A Report from the Attorney General to the Vice President, August 1999
The Internet and other telecommunications technologies are promoting advances in virtually every aspect of society and every corner of the globe. Unfortunately, many of the attributes of this technology - low cost, ease of use, and anonymous nature, among others - make it an attractive medium for fraudulent scams, child sexual exploitation, and increasingly, a new concern known as "cyberstalking."

National Conference of State Legislatures
State Computer Harassment or "Cyberstalking" Laws
Law enforcement agencies estimate that electronic communications are a factor in from 20 percent to 40 percent of all stalking cases. Forty-four states now have laws that explicitly include electronic forms of communication within stalking or harassment laws. State laws that do not include specific references to electronic communication may still apply to those who threaten or harass others online, but specific language can make the laws easier to enforce.

Domestic Violence and Stalking : The Second Annual Report to Congress under the Violence Against Women Act

Report to Congress on Stalking and Domestic Violence, 2005 through 2006

Domestic Violence, Stalking, and Anti-stalking Legislation (1996)
Passage of the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA), Title W of the Violent Crime Control and Enforcement Act of 1994 (Public Law 103-322), marked a major change in our national response to crimes such as domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. The Act fosters collaboration among law enforcement, health care providers, nonprofit service groups, com-munity leaders, and the private sector. In addition, the Act provides a substantial commitment of Federal resources for police, prosecutors, prevention programs, and victim service initiatives in cases involving these crimes.

International Victimology Website
Gateway to victimology on the web: IVW was launched in June 1999 as a resource for all those interested in improving justice for victims of crime and abuse of power. Through IVW, the UN Center for International Crime Prevention, the Research and Documentation Center of the Netherlands Ministry of Justice and the World Society of Victimology aim to promote the UN Declaration of Basic Principles of Justice for Victims of Crime and Abuse of Power.

Justice for All
A criminal justice reform organization. Web site contains numerous resources for victims of crime, including back issues of a newsletter called Voice of Justice.

NCJRS Virtual Library: Victims of Crime

Stalking and Domestic Violence: A Report to Congress (NCJ186157)
This Report to Congress is part of an ongoing commitment to share information about the development of laws addressing stalking and strategies that show promise in the field. It is produced in response to subtitle F of VAWA which directs the United States Attorney General to submit a report on these issues. May 2001.

Stalking Victims' Sanctuary
The purpose of this site is to educate people about this insidious crime, and most importantly, to offer sanctuary to those exposed to its ugly face. We offer these resources so that victims may take back their lives. Regaining control, reclaiming it from those who thrive on stripping it from others, is the task facing all victims. Our duty is to assist with that endeavor.

Victim Assistance Online: A Comprehensive Resource Center
An information, research and networking resource for victim assistance specialists, professionals in related disciplines and all interested in the field of victimology.

VictimLaw.Info
VictimLaw, developed by the National Center for Victims of Crime with funding from the Office for Victims of Crime, is a new online database that houses more than 15,000 victims' rights statutes (Federal and State), tribal laws, constitutional amendments, court rules, and administrative code provisions. The database is searchable by topic, keyword, jurisdiction, and citation. Such ready access to information can advance the cause of crime victims' rights by facilitating the exercise, implementation, and enforcement of those rights.

Articles

Stalking the Stalker: A Profile of Offenders, by Robert Wood

Books

In His Sights, Kate Brennan, 2008, New York, NY.
Kate Brennan is an alias used to protect the author's real identity. She has been a freelance writer (under her real name) for more than thirty years, with a focus on women's issues. This visceral memoir not only lays bare the mind of a stalker, but also of how a smart, successful woman can fall prey to a warped and powerful man who has the money and connections to keep her under his watchful eye.

Stalkers and Their Victims
Paul E. Mullen, Michele Pathe, Rosemary Purcell

Over recent years, stalking has emerged as a major social and legal issue, and also as a clinical problem for mental health professionals. This absorbing and informative book draws on the authors' extensive experience of working with stalkers and their victims in the clinical setting, and makes a major contribution toward understanding the nature, causes, impact and management of stalking.

Topics included: The growing recognition of stalking as an issue of public legal and scientific concern. The definition, classification and epidemiology of stalking. The impact on victims, and how this may be reduced. Same-gender stalking, stalking by proxy, workplace stalking, and the stalking of professionals, such as doctors and teachers. The association of stalking with physical and sexual assault. Anti-stalking laws internationally. Support and practical advice for victims of stalking. Assessing and managing the stalker.

With many case histories, and an approach that is at once scholarly and highly practical, this will be the definitive guide and reference for anyone with a professional or academic interest in this complex behavior.

How to Stop a Stalker
Veteran Detective Mike Proctor Tells You: How to identify a stalker, how they stalk and why they do it, what to do if you are being stalked, how to collect evidence, how to get the justice system on your side, and what to do in court.

If you are a victim of a stalker or suspect that you might be, this book will give you the means, not only to protect yourself, but ultimately to put the stalker behind bars. Veteran detective Mike Proctor, who has investigated and consulted on over 110 stalking cases (all of which have been successfully prosecuted), has written this essential survival guide for anyone who becomes the target of one of these sociopaths. Proctor lays out the typical patterns of stalker behavior: leaving bizarre gifts and notes; vandalism; surveillance; persistent contact through various means of harassment (phones, pagers, letters); breaking and entering, either to steal some personal item or just to let the victim know that his or her privacy has been violated: and a host of other nuisance tactics, including harassment of family members and family pets, filing legal actions, disrupting utility services, and threats of violence. With his wealth of experience, Proctor offers keen insights into the pathological mindset of the stalker: For example, stalking problems often arise in a situation of domestic violence; many stalkers are fantasy driven, often believing that the victim is in love with them; they rarely take responsibility for their actions, blaming others for making them do what they do; most have stalked more than one person; and revenge by disgruntled employees against a business associates or employers is also an increasingly common motive in stalking.

This excellent handbook on a serious social problem will be of great use to current or potential stalking victims, law enforcement officials, personnel departments, and employers.

How to Be Invisible Revised Edition
The Essential Guide to Protecting Your Personal Privacy, Your Assets, and Your Life. Sweeping changes since 9/11 have encroached upon personal privacy as never before. This new edition of J.J. Luna's classic manual covers everything from driver's licenses and pizza deliveries to anonymous ownership of vehicles and real estate.

FROM CYBERSPACE TO CRAWL SPACES, innovations in information gathering have left the private life of the average person open to scrutiny and, worse, exploitation. In this thoroughly revised update of his immensely popular guide How To Be Invisible, J.J. Luna shows you how to protect yourself from these information predators by securing your vehicle and real estate ownership, your bank accounts, your business dealings, your computer files, your home address, and more.

J.J. Luna, a highly trained and experienced security consultant, shows you how to achieve the privacy you crave and deserve, whether you just want to shield yourself from casual scrutiny or take your life savings with you and disappear without a trace. Whatever your needs, Luna reveals the shocking secrets of private detectives and other seekers of personal information and then shows how to make a serious commitment to safeguarding yourself.

There is a prevailing sense in our society that true privacy is a thing of the past. Filled with vivid real-life stories drawn from the headlines and from Luna's own consulting experience, How to Be Invisible, Revised Edition is a critical antidote to the privacy concerns that continue only to grow in magnitude as new and more efficient ways of undermining our personal security are made available. Privacy is a commonly lamented casualty of the Information Age and of the world's changing climate - but that doesn't mean you have to stand for it.

The Gift of Fear
Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence by Gavin de Becker

We all know there are plenty of reasons to fear people from time to time. The question is, what are those times? A stranger in a deserted parking lot offers to help carry a woman's groceries. Is he a good Samaritan or is he after something else? A fired employee says, "you'll be sorry." Will be return with a gun? After their first date, a man tells a woman it is their "destiny" to be together. What will he do when she rejects him? A teenager is obsessed with "death metal" music and fascinated with guns. Is he going to kill someone? A mother has an uneasy feeling about the nice baby-sitter she's just hired. Should she cancel her plans? A man is threatened by his girlfriend's angry ex-husband. Should he go to the police?

Now, Gavin de Becker, the nation's leading expert on predicting violent behavior, proves that we are all qualified to answer life's highest-stakes questions. "True fear is a gift," he says, because it is a survival signal that sounds only in the presence of danger; yet unwarranted fear has assumed a power over us that it holds over no other creature on earth. It need not be this way.

In this extraordinary, groundbreaking book, de Becker shows that you can already predict violent behavior. Through dozens of compelling stories from his own career, he lays out the pieces of the human violence puzzle and shows how you can solve it by paying attention to the subtle - and sometimes blatant - signals of intuition. As he says, "you can refuse to be a victim."

Filled with unique and surprising insights into human behavior, The Gift of Fear will help you separate real from imagined danger, give you confidence in a sometimes threatening world, and make your life measurably safer.

The Psychology of Stalking
Edited by J. Reid Meloy
The Psychology of Stalking is the first scholarly book on stalking ever published. Virtually every serious writer and researcher in this area of criminal psychopathology has contributed to this comprehensive resource. These chapters explore stalking from social, psychiatric, psychological, legal, and behavioral perspectives. New thinking and data are presented on threats, pursuit characteristics, psychiatric diagnoses, offender - victim typologies, cyberstalking, false victimization syndrome, erotomania, stalking and domestic violence, stalking of public figures, and many more aspects of stalking. This landmark text is of interest to both professionals and other thoughtful individuals who recognize the serious nature of this ominous social behavior at the end of the millennium.

Safety for Stalking Victims
How to save your privacy, your sanity, and your life by Lyn Bates

Stalking is a serious crime that disproportionately affects and endangers women. The Nation Institute of Justice says one in every 12 women and one in every 20 men will be stalked in their lifetimes.

Some stalkers make phone calls, send messages, or deliver "gifts." Some follow their victims home, vandalize property, make threats, or kill pets. Some stalkers even attempt rape, kidnapping, or murder. And some succeed. Being the target of an obsessed person is a frightening experience. But it isn't necessary to live in fear. Leering how to be safe is the the key.

Topics include: Who stalks, who is stalked, and why. Evaluating the seriousness of the situation. Replacing terror with sensible precautions. Restraining orders - good or bad. Disappearing - why, when and how. Protecting your children. Self defense - what works, what doesn't. Safety on a budget. Maintaining your privacy. Strategies that don't work. Helpful web sites and organizations. Using scenarios based on real stalking cases, this book overflows with detailed, practical strategies to put you in control of your situation, and let you break the cycle of terror.

Mistakes by the legal system, employers, or even family members can make the situation worse. If you work with stalking victims, or are concerned about one, you need this information, too.

Stalking: Surviving the Hidden Terror
Paula LaRue, M.S.

Don't let a stalker take control of your life! Are you being followed? Receiving unwanted phone calls, or gifts? Does someone appear at your work, or leave messages on your car?

Stalking in a crime that can send terror racing through a victim's body. It can develop slowly and escalate to physical violence, even murder.

Until recently, little help was available to stalking victims. Victims have had to move and change their lives. But now, there is hope. An increasing number of stalking victims are reclaiming their lives.

STALKING: Surviving the Hidden Terror explains stalking, how to avoid becoming a victim, and what to do if you are being stalked. It will explore the role and process of the police and the judicial system. It will examine the reaction of friends, family, the police, co-workers and even the victims themselves. It tells the real life stories of actual stalking victims who are winning the battle against their stalkers. People who, against all odds, refused to give up control of their lives. Stalking: A Handbook for Victims

Stalking: A Handbook for Victims
Emily Spence-Diehl

If your reading this, chances are a stalker has begun to rob you of your sense of control over your life. You may be overwhelmed and unsure of where to turn next. If so, this book is for you. It is written under the guiding belief that knowledge is power. By arming you with resources, choices, safety tips and stalker information; I hope you will be able to turn the tide against the stalker and regain some power and control over you life.

I want to first emphasize the purpose of this book is to present you with options not directions. It is a handbook not an instruction manual. There is no "one size fits all" approach to stalking intervention. As you gather information, please know that you must make the choices that work best for you. Trust your gut feelings. If I have I have discussed an option that you believe won't work for you - by all means disregard it! Police officers, counselors, victim advocates, prosecutors, friends, co-workers and family are all part of a team intended to help you - but you are the team leader.

I wish to commend you for taking steps to gain back control. You are experiencing one of the very worst crimes against humanity. You may be feeling isolated, misunderstood and terrified - a prisoner in your own home. I sincerely hope that the information you find here will arm you with helpful knowledge and shed light on the path towards healing and safety. Though there are no easy answers, please know that you are not alone. Help is out there and together we can wage a war against this insidious crime.

I Know You Really Love Me
Doreen Orion, M.D.

A psychiatrist's account of stalking and obsessive love. Locked in a ward of an Arizona psychiatric hospital, the patient called Fran looked harmless, even ordinary. Meeting her, psychiatrist Doreen Orion had no warning that Fran suffered from erotomania, the bizarre mental disorder that causes stalkers to believe their victims are in love with them - and no inkling that she would be the next target of Fran's twisted, dangerous mind.

Now Dr. Orion reveals how she has been spied upon, accosted, and hunted for eight years, living in fear of her life and the lives of those closest to her. Changing her address and job, getting restraining orders and having Fran arrested, have all failed to end Fran's obsessive behavior, which continues to this day.

Recounting the ordeals of Madonna, David Letterman, and scores of others who have been terrorized by stalkers, Dr. Orion alerts potential victims to this increasingly deadly disorder - and tells what society must do to protect us all from those who would kill for love.

Without Conscience
The Disturbing World of The Psychopaths Among Us
Dr. Robert D. Hare

We often think of psychopaths as the disturbed criminals who capture headlines and crowd the nation's prisons. But not all psychopaths are killers. They are more likely to be men and women you know who move through life with supreme self-confidence but without a conscience. Based on twenty-five years of groundbreaking research, Without Conscience is a fascinating journey into the minds of these dangerous individuals, many of whom: live on the edge, often changing jobs, schools, relationships, and homes, never feel guilty - even when they are caught, act cold and distant one moment and intensely emotional the next, lack empathy living for the moment without regard for the welfare of others, scheme their way into money, power, and relationships.

In fact, psychopaths have none of the hallmarks of mental illness. They appear normal, but they're not - they are manipulative, dangerous individuals who live and work in our communities, often leaving behind a wake of broken hearts, empty wallets and ruined lives. Are they born heartless, or created by circumstance? How and why do they get away with cheating, conning and murder? Are they mad or simply bad? How can we recognize and steer clear of these predatory people? From society's most notorious killers to little-known, everyday hustlers, Without Conscience explores the psychopath's shocking patterns and exposes one of the most frightening, often-hidden social problems affecting our lives today.

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