Safer Sex
Abstinence
Abstinence is when you do not wish to have intercourse. Saying "no" or abstaining from intercourse is a positive choice. Absistence is the ONLY form of birth control that is 100 percent effective in preventing pregnancy. Absistence also protects people against STIs.
12 Things to Ask Yourself Before Having Sex
- Can I have sex without feeling guilt or regrets?
- Do I want to have sex for selfish reasons?
- Have I discussed birth control with my partner?
- Do I have all the knowledge I need to prevent an unwanted pregnancy and the spread of STIs?
- How do my religious beliefs affect my decision?
- Have I thought of all the possible consequences?
- Am I willing to accept any of the consequences?
- How will having sex affect our relationship?
- Am I afraid I'll lose my partner if I refuse to have sex?
- Do I want to have sex because of pressure from friends?
- Have I honestly considered my values?
- Are there other ways we can build a loving relationship?
